Priorities in Life !!
As we go through our day we follow a set of task which are based on certain rule of priority or ally randomness (At times i feel that randomness is also chosen with will/consent).There was priority when you choose to browse this article or you may leave it midway as you have a better work to do.
This even applies to our decisions in life as well, we are always confronted with humpty number of decisions and we seek the decisions based on our judgment prudent then.The complexities arise when we need to take mutually exclusive decisions, to be lucid , the "now or never decisions" which are totally irreversible and exist in monopoly.
I was trying to apparently peep into factors that contribute to our priority, the first factor that beckoned my attention was the "being - tobe factor".It depends on what we are currently and what we want to be in future.These factors are completely an outcome of our conditioning which is a close proxy to our value system.There are values which we hold very close to us, which are basically the core values which are hardly compromised and the other type called the attributed values which are compromised when situtions arise.When we try to look back at our past decisions, we can observe that our priority was mostly taken to align with our core values.
Now what if we are confronted with a decision tree which has branches which are mutually conflicting with our core values (everthing is possible you know).What if both core values are equally important (I don't believe in equal importance because there can't be one like that, atleast that is what my past conditioning has made me perceive) and that state leads to a intersting situation, we choose to succumb to randomness (most of the times, the outcome of the decision is the core value which is superior although we might be confused about the priority in core value).
The other factors that came to me was inertia and time.There are times when we totally move with the factors that guided us in the past to guide our current decision.Having caught up in world of casuality determined by space-time, certain decisions are taken with insufficient time its rule is mostly determined by inertia and core values.
As days get by, our priorties change in life as we continously evolve in a flux of situations and our values find a new equlibrium at every moment.Every decision is right at that moment and can't be ridiculed as well.Its absolutely essential to have our core values tuned before we make big decisions in life. Never should we be struck in interia, we should strive to learn what is right and wrong and what priorities we have in life.The funny part is that what might be in the list now may not exist as we contemplate later in life.
